20/08/2026
Headship is not a solo assignment.
Being the head of a home carries responsibility — to provide, to lead, to guide, to protect and to make wise decisions.
But a man's leadership is not weakened when his wife stands with him. Her support is not a threat to his headship; it can be part of what strengthens the home.
Marriage is partnership. There will be seasons when one carries more, seasons when circumstances change, and seasons when both simply have to figure things out together.
The goal is not to compete over who provides more. The goal is to build a home that stands.
Another reflection from my conversation with Chris Wanga on Father Studies.