10/23/2026
What Type Of Inheritance Are You Giving To Your Children?
When you hear the word inheritance, the first thing that likely comes to mind is receiving a financial windfall from a deceased relative. But an inheritance isn’t just limited to money. Merriam-Webster defines inheritance as “the acquisition of a possession, condition, or trait from past generations.”
Inheritance Starts From Birth
From the moment our child enters the world, we provide for every need, feeding, clothing, and caring for our new bundle of joy. As they grow, we continue to share our resources with them in the form of time, knowledge, energy, and finances. We know that our time with them is limited and we want to teach them as much as possible, either through life lessons or a formal education, before they launch out on their own. This is all part of their inheritance.
Imagine your kid’s life like a relay race. As they mature and reach new milestones, we hand off different batons with the wisdom and skills they need for the next stage of the race. The final handoff is usually the traditional financial inheritance. But while this baton is the most valuable monetarily, it may not be the most valuable inheritance they receive in life.
Values > Money
Every parent has their own set of values they want to see replicated in their kids. For me, those are a good education, a strong work ethic, and a moral compass.
Mistakes Build Strength
We don’t want to see our children make the same mistakes that we did, so we often try to protect them from doing so. However, upon reflection, we find that those mistakes are what made us who we are today, despite the pain or frustration of the circumstances. Maybe our kids need the freedom to make some of those mistakes so they can learn from them, especially when they are young and the stakes are lower.
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