My Divorce Solution

10/26/2026

You have an attorney for the legal side of divorce. But who's helping you understand the financial side?

Keeping the house might sound like a win. But can you afford it long-term?

Splitting retirement accounts might seem straightforward. But what about taxes and your future income?

These are the kinds of questions a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®) can help you answer.

A CDFA specializes in understanding the financial complexities of divorce, helping you evaluate your options and make decisions based on facts—not just emotions or assumptions.

At My Divorce Solution, we believe financial clarity should come BEFORE you sign an agreement, not after.

Wondering whether a CDFA should be part of your divorce team?

Read our blog to learn what they do and why their expertise matters.

https://mydivorcesolution.com/what-is-a-certified-divorce-financial-analyst-cdfa/

A CDFA analyzes the long-term financial impact of divorce settlement options. Learn what they do, how they differ from attorneys, and when to hire one.

10/22/2026

What if staying in your marriage means sacrificing your happiness?
MDS co-founder Catherine Shanahan spent years questioning whether to stay or leave an emotionally abusive relationship.

Her husband was earning more than ever, but financial security didn't mean she was happy.

Then her mother asked a question she would never forget: “Do you want to be my age, lonely and sad and scared, and just looking at your bank statements but not happy?”

Divorce can be frightening, especially when you're worried about your financial future. But understanding your finances can help you make decisions from a place of knowledge rather than fear.

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10/22/2026

Your divorce may be final. But are your financial ties truly resolved?
Years after her divorce, MDS co-founder Karen Chellew discovered that remaining connected to her former husband's business had serious financial consequences she never anticipated.

Even with experienced attorneys involved, this critical detail had been overlooked.

Her experience helped shape the MDS Method and our commitment to leaving no stone unturned.

Because financial clarity isn't just about the agreement you sign. It's about understanding what happens afterward.

🎁 Learn from 10 years of experience with our FREE Divorce Clarity Guide.
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10/22/2026

A little Bravo sparkle. A lot of real-life conversations. ✨

More highlights from Catherine’s evening at BravoCon, where she met some of the women of The Real Housewives!

From a great conversation with Alicia about the importance of financial knowledge to meeting Gina, Shannon, and others in the Bravo community, Catherine had plenty of memorable moments to share.

These encounters sparked excitement about the conversations we love having on We Chat Divorce—relationships, blended families, starting over, and finding financial clarity through life’s changes.

Because whatever your next chapter looks like, knowledge belongs in it. 💛

What would you love to hear these women discuss on We Chat Divorce?


Karen Chellew

10/21/2026

A Real Housewife. A real conversation about financial clarity. 💬

Our co-founder Catherine Shanahan met Alicia Carmody of The Real Housewives of Rhode Island at BravoCon, and they had a wonderful conversation about the importance of financial knowledge.

Understanding your finances. Feeling comfortable asking questions. Having the information you need to make informed decisions about your future.

Alicia, thank you for such a thoughtful conversation and for sharing your enthusiasm for financial knowledge!

At My Divorce Solution, we believe everyone deserves to understand their financial picture—wherever they are in life.

What’s one thing you wish you had learned about finances sooner?

10/20/2026

You've built a business. Have you considered how divorce could affect it?

When families own businesses, personal and business finances can become deeply connected.

And when divorce enters the picture, the financial questions can extend far beyond dividing assets.

What is the business worth? How is income determined? What happens to ownership interests? How could a settlement affect the business's future?

These are important questions—and ones that deserve careful financial analysis.

Our Co-Founder, Catherine Shanahan, CDFA®, is bringing attention to this often-overlooked issue in her new Forbes Business Council article, Planning for Divorce Is Part of Family Business Risk Management.

At My Divorce Solution, helping people understand complex financial situations is at the heart of what we do.

Through our MDS Financial Portrait™, we help turn financial documents and complicated numbers into a clearer picture of the options and potential consequences.

Knowledge creates options. Preparation creates clarity.

Read Catherine's article and learn more about this important conversation. https://www.forbes.com/councils/forbesbusinesscouncil/2026/10/20/planning-for-divorce-is-part-of-family-business-risk-management/

As with any business decision, it's important to have a strategy to address both the short-term and long-term ramifications of divorce.

10/19/2026

“You don’t have to work.” “Why aren’t you working to help us?” When the expectations keep changing, you can find yourself questioning your own judgment.
In this We Chat Divorce clip, Catherine Shanahan shares her experience with those conflicting messages. Dr. Nadine Macaluso explains how healthy interdependence allows both people to have a voice, a sense of self, and a connection.
If this feels familiar, you deserve space to understand your experience and your financial picture.
Our free Rebuilding Trust in Yourself toolkit includes reflection prompts, a financial clarity checklist, and room to identify one manageable next step.
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10/17/2026

10 YEARS. THOUSANDS OF FAMILIES. ONE MISSION: FINANCIAL CLARITY IN DIVORCE.

Ten years ago, two women recognized something missing from the divorce process: people were making life-changing financial decisions without fully understanding the numbers.

They believed there had to be a better way.

Today, My Divorce Solution is celebrating 10 years of helping individuals and families approach divorce with knowledge, preparation, and financial clarity.

To celebrate this milestone, we're sharing something special with you.

Our FREE Divorce Clarity Guide brings together valuable lessons from a decade of experience, including:

✓ 10 costly divorce mistakes to avoid
✓ Financial questions to ask before making decisions
✓ Steps to better understand your assets, debts, and financial future
✓ Practical insights to help you prepare before negotiating

Whether you're considering divorce, just beginning the process, or working toward a settlement, the decisions you make today can shape your financial future for years to come.

You deserve to understand your options before making them.

🎁 Get your FREE Divorce Clarity Guide!

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10/16/2026

Being called “codependent” can leave you asking: Was their behavior somehow my fault?
In this We Chat Divorce clip, Dr. Nadine Macaluso explains why she challenges that label when applied to abuse survivors—and why understanding coercive control and trauma bonds requires a deeper conversation.
You can reflect on your own needs without taking responsibility for someone else’s abuse.
Our free Rebuilding Trust in Yourself toolkit offers reflection prompts, a financial clarity checklist, and space to identify one manageable next step.
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10/15/2026

You know the relationship hurt you. So why do you still miss them?

That question deserves compassion.

In this episode of We Chat Divorce, Dr. Nadine Macaluso joins Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan to explore trauma bonds, coercive control, and why she challenges the “codependent” label when applied to abuse survivors.

They also discuss how emotional and financial dependence can become intertwined—and why understanding your finances can help you consider your options before deciding what comes next.

You do not have to figure out your entire future today. Start with information, support, and one manageable step.

Check out the full conversation:

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