Shell Sawyer, CDFA Your Financial Specialist through Divorce & Beyond

10/22/2026

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My apologies for not listing on the graphic!

10/15/2026

Tell me if I'm wrong, but...

The most stressful part of divorce isn't always the divorce.

Sometimes it's the uncertainty around money.

Questions like:
"Will I be okay?"
"Can I keep the house?"
"What will my monthly budget look like?"
"Can I afford to start over?"

Financial clarity can't eliminate stress, but it can help replace fear with confidence.

What's the biggest financial question people should ask before divorce?

👇 Share your thoughts.

10/14/2026

You know what surprises me?

How many people are considering divorce but don't know:

How much is in retirement accounts
What debts are outstanding
What insurance policies exist
What the monthly household expenses actually are

I always tell people:

Before you make decisions, gather information.

Knowledge creates options. Options create confidence.

And confidence can make an incredibly difficult process feel much more manageable.

Want to learn how to build knowledge and confidence before making decisions? Contact Shell for a free 30-minute consultation today.
Shell Sawyer, CDFA
860.613.5575
[email protected]

*This post is for educational purposes only and is not legal or financial advice. Every situation is unique.*

10/12/2026

You know what gets me?

When I hear, "The house is only in my name."
Or, "The business is only in my name."
Or my personal favorite, "They didn't contribute financially at all."

And then I think to myself, "This is your opportunity to educate."

Because ownership and financial contributions are only part of the conversation. Many people are surprised to learn that property acquired during a marriage may be viewed differently than they expect, regardless of whose name appears on the title or account.

Needless to say, they don't always love my answer. 😅

Get in touch to learn more:
Shell Sawyer, CDFA
860.613.5575
[email protected]

*This post is for educational purposes only and is not legal advice*

10/08/2026

Did you know that “Strengths” is the longest word in the English language with one vowel?..and divorce requires every single strength you have.

Strength to leave.
Strength to stay.
Strength to co‑parent.
Strength to rebuild.
Strength to begin again.

At Finding "Strength" with Shell, I help you find the strengths you didn’t know you had and use them to create a future that feels like yours again.

Finding Strength 💚 Creating Clarity 💚 Together
Shell Sawyer, CDFA
860.613.5575
[email protected]

10/07/2026

🍂 Fall Into Clarity isn’t just a seasonal theme; it’s a mindset shift so many people need during divorce.

When life feels heavy, confusing, or tangled, clarity often arrives in small, steady moments… not all at once. This season reminds us that letting go, gathering what matters, slowing down, and choosing support are powerful acts of strength.

If you’re contemplating divorce or at the early “I don’t know what to do yet” stage, these five tips will help you breathe, ground yourself, and move forward with intention.

You don’t have to figure it all out alone.
We build clarity together, one steady step at a time.

🍁 Save this post for when you need a moment of grounding.
🍁 Share it with someone who might need it today.

Finding Strength 💚 Creating Clarity 💚 Together
Shell Sawyer, CDFA
860.613.5575
[email protected]

10/07/2026

Divorce is hard.
So is staying in a marriage where you feel yourself quietly fading a little more each day.

Co‑parenting and not seeing your kids every day is hard.
So is raising them in a home filled with tension, conflict, and the constant self‑abandonment that comes from trying to keep the peace.

Starting over is hard.
So is never knowing what possibilities, safety, or fulfillment might be waiting for you on the other side of a decision you’re afraid to make.

Every path has a “hard.”
Choose the one that leads you back to yourself, the one that makes you happy.

Finding Strength 💚 Creating Clarity 💚 Together
Shell Sawyer, CDFA
860.613.5575
[email protected]

10/05/2026

I’m excited to share that I recently completed my Interdisciplinary Collaborative Practice Training, a 16‑hour certification focused on helping families resolve conflict with clarity, respect, and stability.

Now that I've completed this training, I’m hoping to step into a role as a Collaborative Financial Neutral here in Connecticut. I’m looking forward to supporting couples and collaborative teams with transparent financial guidance that helps create calmer, more thoughtful resolutions.

I’m also thrilled to connect with the Connecticut Collaborative Practice Group Professionals. I can't wait to contribute to this meaningful work.

09/26/2026