31/08/2026
It's a particular kind of internal conflict — deciding whether to help your kids financially.
You want to give them a boost without taking away their drive to build their own future.
From my experience, the key is having a plan — and not just handing over money. Without one, you might risk your own retirement savings or create a dependency you didn't intend.
I tend to look at this through a 20/60/20 funding split : it’s a way to align your cashflow with your family values.
1️⃣ 20% for immediate ‘Launch’ costs — things like education or a wedding that gives them a clean start without removing the need for them to earn.
2️⃣ 60% for ‘Productive Protection’ — Investing in structures like an investment portfolio or superannuation where the capital grows for their future, but isn't accessible for daily spending.
3️⃣ 20% for a ‘Safety Net’ Insurance that protects them if life throws a curveball, so they’re not relying on your savings as an emergency fund.
This way, you’re not just giving money — you’re building a legacy that protects their future AND respects their independence.
How do you balance helping your kids with protecting your own financial resources? Would love to hear your thoughts!