13/07/2026
Interview skills are conversation skills. The best way to improve is not to rehearse more answers. It is to get better at talking to people.
1. Toastmasters forces you to speak in front of a room with no script. You learn to organise your thoughts in real time, which is exactly what happens when you get an unexpected question in an interview.
2. Networking events put you in a room full of strangers and make you start conversations from nothing. The awkwardness you feel is the same awkwardness you feel in the first 30 seconds of an interview. The more you do it, the faster it fades.
3. Order your coffee and say one thing beyond your order. Comment on something, ask a question, make small talk. It sounds trivial but most people go entire days without speaking to someone they do not know. That habit of avoiding conversation with strangers is the same habit that makes interviews feel unnatural.
4. Pick a podcast where the host interviews guests and listen to how they respond to answers. Notice how they do not just move to the next question. They pick up on something specific the guest said and dig into it. That is active listening, and it is the skill most candidates are missing in interviews. When you listen properly, your answers become responses to what was actually asked instead of rehearsed lines waiting for a gap.
Know someone with an interview coming up? Send this to them.