08/06/2026
This past weekend reminded me that some of the greatest leadership lessons aren’t learned in a boardroom or classroom.
They’re learned by watching someone quietly serve others.
I had the chance to experience an event that my mom has poured her heart into for years. I’d usually only see the end, the teardown on Monday. This year, I experienced the entire weekend.
And I finally understood.
I saw the countless hours, the behind-the-scenes work, the people it takes, and the endless details that most never notice.
But what stood out most wasn’t the event.
It was my mom.
I watched her give her time, her energy, and her heart to everyone around her. She has an incredible ability to make people feel welcome, valued, and like they belong. She leads without needing recognition and serves without expecting anything in return.
As someone who spends my career helping families navigate important life decisions, I often think about the qualities that build lasting trust. Generosity. Consistency. Humility. Showing up, even when no one is watching.
Those qualities weren’t something I learned from a textbook.
I learned them by watching my mom, the one on the far right of the picture.
This weekend, I found myself proudly telling people, “That’s my mom.”
Not because of what she accomplished over the weekend, but because of the kind of person she has been my entire life.
The older I get, the more I realize that success isn’t just measured by what you build.
It’s measured by the lives you impact.
Thanks, Mom, for showing me what that looks like.
❤️