05/28/2026
People sometimes assume that leaving a charitable gift in your will can catch your children off guard.
That’s not the only way to understand it. ❌
If they have watched you volunteer, give to, or talk about an organization over many years, then the gift is less likely to sound like a choice against them. More likely, they'll recognize it as an extension of who you always were. 💝
That said, I don't think we should skip the conversation just because the intention is clear.
The families I've seen handle this most gracefully are those who talk about it while they still can. The more we normalize talking about legacy while we're still here, the less frightening it becomes.
For us. And for the people we love.
🎤 If your audience is ready for that kind of conversation, I'd love to bring it to your event. Link is in the comments.