01/16/2026
What’s your word of the year?
Let me share a little tradition some of my friends and I started doing last year.
With so much pressure to set new goals and fix your entire life at the beginning of the New Year, while simultaneously seeing everyone’s social media posts about how much awesome stuff they accomplished the previous year, the start of January can oftentimes feel heavy.
So how can you turn things around and put the focus back on you?
It starts with one word.
After the ball dropped last year and my friends and I rang in 2025 at a New Year’s Eve/Book Release party I hosted, we all went around the room and shared one word each of us wanted to define our next 12 months.
My word was joy. I knew that 2025 would be very work-centric with my book EVERYTHING BUT MONEY coming out and its accompanying media and book tour. I also wanted to prepare myself for the inevitable post-publication depression that was waiting for me after my book was no longer “new” anymore.
So I chose joy as my word to remind me that work, success, money, and accolades are never the point. Joy is the point. Finding joy in the little and big things in life. That’s what makes life worth living, and it’s important to never lose sight of that.
For 2026, my word is less. I did the most in 2025 (book release, 7-city book tour, 55 podcast episodes, 22 YouTube videos, countless speaking gigs, QAFP exam, you get the picture) and if I’m honest, my body and mind are still recovering.
This year, I want more space. In my mind and my calendar. I also want to be more intentional and efficient with my time, and only do things I know will not only bring value to me but others too.
So what’s your word? Take a moment and think about it. And if you want a little ritual to go with it, find a candle, light it, say the word to yourself, then blow it out. I know this may sound silly, but that’s what my friends and I did this year, and it added a little magic to it.