16/10/2026
There are two ways to support your children financially. One of them is visible. The other one isn't.
The visible one is the transfer - the deposit, the fees, the sum that moves from your account to theirs. It's the part that gets planned for and talked about.
The second is quieter. It's the years in which they aren't required to step in for you. No contributions towards your costs, no decisions made around your situation, no reorganising their own finances to absorb yours.
That second form of support only holds if your plan can take the weight of the first. Which is why the useful work happens before any money moves: understanding what your own future actually costs, how resilient the plan is if health or longevity don't go as expected, and what's left once a significant gift has gone out of it.
Done in that order, help given now doesn't quietly create a cost later.
Oakmere Wealth is an Appointed Representative of and represents only St. James’s Place Wealth Management plc (which is authorised and regulated by the Financial Conduct Authority). Oakmere Wealth is a trading name of Oakmere Wealth Management Ltd.
SJP approved: 12/10/2026