07/04/2026
The 4th of July I remember most was 1976. The bicentennial. I was eleven years old.
We had a cabin up Cross Lake in Pine City, Minnesota. It's called Cross Lake because the Snake River ran through it. The river was used to transport timber, and as a result, there were submerged logs sticking up from the bottom of the lake, some 50 feet long. Once in a while, someone with a big boat motor would try to pull one of the logs out — but to no avail — it was not coming out.
Our cabin was rustic and had no running water — we would walk to the neighbors to fill up 5-gallon jugs and carry them back! The interior walls of the cabin were insulated but had no sheetrock. It had an outhouse — that's rustic! But it sat right on the lake, and that was all that mattered. Because it was a great lake for swimming and waterskiing.
Our friends the Karls lived across the water. And my dad, mom, brother, sister, and I would put on our life jackets and cruise across the lake to their cabin. Raleigh Karls was a rough-and-tough guy — big into fishing and hunting — and he had a saying: the 4th of July was Kids' Day. We would spend all day fishing, water skiing, and lighting off fireworks. Nobody told us to stop. Nobody told us to hurry. The whole day was ours.
Then, at night, we would pile back into the boat and head home. I remember the water being like glass. Perfectly still. The boat wide open, cutting across a lake so smooth it felt like you could see every star reflected in it. My brother and sister might have been dozing off before we got to the other side. No worry about anything. Just that feeling of everything being calm and right.
That is what freedom feels like. Not loud. Not complicated. Smooth. Still. Knowing you are exactly where you are supposed to be.
That is also what I want for the people I work with. Financial independence is not a number on a statement. It is that feeling — like glass — where everything is clear and steady, and you are not worried about what comes next. You just know you are ready.
Happy 4th of July.