04/17/2024
I want to share this to keep awareness of scams. this is the called Romance or Sweetheart Scams. Please share with family that can belief.
Romance Scam
βI love you. Send me money.β
Although not quite that simple, this is ultimately what happens in most romance scams. These scams tend to be run by rings of successful fraudsters throughout the world. They have a presence on dating sites and social media and are always looking for their next victim.
Generally, they steal photos of individuals who are attractive and appear to be successful and create a fake identity. They will quickly attempt to develop a relationship with their victim. Although these can happen to anyone of any gender and any age, they tend to target older adults, since older individuals tend to have more money. Many targets are elderly widows/widowers who are lonely and looking for companionship. These romance scammers will shower their victim with attention and affectionate talk.
Many romance scammers say that they are out of the country on business or some other project. Many profess to be from a country where English is their first language and assert that they have a college education. However, the communication is often in broken English with ongoing errors in grammar and spelling.
Interestingly, these errors can be an intentional βtest.β The victimβs willingness to overlook the grammatical discrepancies can indicate to the scammer that they are more apt to believe further lies.
These scammers often make elaborate plans to meet up with their victims but cancel at the last minute due to some unexpected issue β usually financial.
Requests for money often come with a promise to pay the victim back, usually due to an alleged incoming inheritance or other pending large payout. A challenge in romance scams is that the longer the ruse continues, the more committed the victim becomes in the βrelationship.β Often the victims have invested financially and emotionally with the scammer and are planning a future with them. They can truly believe they are in love, and, as the old saying goes: Love is blind.