08/19/2026
Something I’m really big on is that wealthy parents should consider giving to their children earlier in life rather than waiting until they can inherit.
It’s a fact of life - at some point, you will pass, and you may leave your kids with a nice nest egg for their own retirement. But let’s fast forward a bit - at what age are they really getting that money?
Average life expectancy in the U.S. is about 79, and the average age at first birth is about 28. That means many inheritors may be close to 60 by the time they receive that inheritance.
By that point, many of the major life-defining financial events have already happened:
• They may have already purchased their “forever” house
• Their own kids may already be done with college
• They may have already spent years grinding to pay off student loans or credit card debt
Meanwhile, they receive a significant amount of money after the fact, when they are already in their peak earning years. That same money may have helped them:
• Pay down stubborn high-interest debt
• Invest more for their own future
• Help create an exit strategy from a job they hate
• Start a business they’re more passionate about
• Slow down and scale back so they can spend more time with their kids while everyone is young and healthy
The timing of the transition that wealth can make a huge difference in your future family’s trajectory. Simply hoarding cash until you die just to pass it on can feel like a missed high five.
I’m not saying you should sacrifice your own financial security - that obviously should come first, but if your plan already shows you have more than enough, it’s worth asking:
“Would this money have more impact after I’m gone, or while I’m still here to see what it helps make possible?”