07/14/2026
Yesterday, I attended a Celebration of Life service at my synagogue for a beloved member's husband who passed away on June 18, 2026, at the age of 85.
During the service, Rabbi George shared a story that deeply touched me.
Debra and her husband were married for 42 years. In 2008, he suffered a major skiing accident that left him wheelchair-bound and disabled for the last 17 years of his life.
What struck me most was not the accident itself, but what followed.
For 17 years, Debra faithfully cared for her husband. Through the physical challenges, emotional strain, and life changes that accompanied his disability, she never abandoned him. She showed up every day with love, dignity, patience, and commitment.
To me, this is the definition of true love.
In a world that often celebrates success, wealth, and achievement, we sometimes forget that the greatest measure of a relationship is how we care for one another when life becomes difficult.
As a financial planner, this story also reinforced something I often discuss with clients:
Financial planning is not just about money. It's about love in action.
When we create retirement plans, buy life insurance, establish trusts, prepare healthcare directives, or plan for long-term care, we are doing more than managing finances. We are helping protect the people we love from unnecessary hardship during life's most challenging moments.
No one expects a life-changing accident. No one plans to become disabled. But life can change in an instant.
The strongest financial plans are ultimately expressions of care, responsibility, and commitment to those who depend on us.
Debra's devotion reminded me that while wealth can provide resources, it is love that provides purpose.
And perhaps the greatest financial planning question we can ask ourselves is:
"If something happened to me or my spouse tomorrow, have we prepared well enough to care for each other?"
Thank you, Debra, for demonstrating what unconditional love truly looks like.