07/17/2026
Wealth Beyond Money
Love Doesn’t Always Mean Equal
One of the most meaningful conversations I’ve had with a client wasn’t about investments.
It was about family.
A parent shared something that weighed heavily on their heart.
One of their children had built a successful, independent life.
The other had struggled with addiction for many years.
Their question wasn’t, “How should I divide my estate?”
It was,
“How do I make sure both of my children are cared for in the way they need to be?”
That conversation reminded me that estate planning isn’t really about dividing assets.
It’s about caring for the people you love.
Sometimes that means treating children equally.
Sometimes it means recognizing that equal isn’t always the same as fair.
Working alongside their estate planning attorney, we were able to create a plan that reflected the parent’s wishes and provided long-term care and protection for both children in different ways.
Moments like that remind me that the most important financial decisions are rarely about money alone.
They’re about love.
They’re about responsibility.
They’re about leaving behind more than an inheritance.
The best financial plans don’t start with dollars.
They start with a life worth planning for.
— Todd Glazer, MBA, CFP®, RICP®