08/16/2023
Have you thought about how you want to be living when youâre 105? Does anyone know your wishes?
đ¶ Luca, who has made appearances in many of my social updates and video meetings, is now 105 in human years, which is way past his life expectancy. Up until a year ago, I was often asked how he could be so spry at his age, and my half joking response was always âlong walks, spending money on quality food, and having a comfortable couch to sneak up onâ.
Todayâs is not about saving for retirement.
đ„ŠModern medicine (and eating your veggies) could keep us around into our 100s too.
âĄïž Early in my career I spent a lot of time discussing insurance with my clients and would hear a client's preferences or final wishes. But those wishes were often not in writing, and therefore most would not be carried out.
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A few years ago I started padding my emergency fund for the vet bills I knew were coming. While Lucaâs blood work is âamazing for a dog his ageâ, his arthritis is on par with an active dog and has caught up with him after his years of partying hard.
đŸ Animals donât always communicate when there is pain, and will try to push through it. They rely on their people to speak for them, and Iâll doubt my decisions instead of his veterinarian. If youâve ever had a pet, you might relate to the monitoring and decision making phase Iâm in.
đ Humans have the ability to communicate our wishes, but many do not. We can appoint someone to speak for us, and instruct medical professionals how long and if we want extraordinary measures to be in effect. đ We can direct how our toys will be distributed.
âĄïž Without proper planning, your spouse or loved ones will have a more difficult experience carrying out your wishes, than you would for a pet. Itâs not fun to think about, however once you created the proper documents with a trusted attorney, you wonât need to think about it again. And those you appoint to make decisions for you if necessary, will have clear guidance on what you want, and hopefully be at peace as they carry out your wishes.
âĄïž August is I canât create these documents for you, but I can offer attorney connections and help you plan for your savings to last for a long retirement. Luca is available by request to join video calls - just mention him in the memo when you book a discovery call đ https://go.oncehub.com/EricaMellone