10/20/2026
The person you think is slowing you down may be the one helping you go farther.
This weekend, I ran my first half marathon since three knee surgeries.
11,000 runners braved 34-degree weather for the Kansas City Marathon, and I was among them, running 13.1 miles to raise money for clean water through Team World Vision.
My Ethiopian friend Solomon promised to run alongside me at an easy pace. I was grateful for the company and looking forward to catching up.
I just didn't realize how easy he had in mind! 😂
Less than a mile in, he stopped to retie his shoe. A few miles later, he wanted to stop for a photo. Then, near the WWI museum, he received a call from our friend Kaleab in Ethiopia.
"Let's FaceTime him!"
Seriously? We were finally making progress!
By mile 9, Solomon needed a restroom break. I was beginning to wonder if I was running with a 3-year-old! 😊
There went my hoped-for finish time.
Then around mile 10, my surgically repaired knee started talking back. The final miles became increasingly difficult, and I hit the proverbial wall.
That's when I began to appreciate what Solomon had been doing all along.
He could have run ahead and finished faster. Instead, he adjusted his pace to mine, walked alongside me, and encouraged me when I needed it most.
He wasn't focused on how fast he could finish. He was committed to helping us finish together.
That got me thinking about business leadership.
How often do we become frustrated when someone on our team doesn't move as fast as we'd like?
We get impatient when people ask questions, need more training, or take a different path than the one we envisioned. We focus on the deadline, the numbers, and how quickly we can get to the finish line.
But what if our job as leaders isn't always to move faster?
What if it's to help the people around us develop the capacity, clarity, and confidence to go farther?
Sometimes that means slowing down to coach someone rather than simply doing it ourselves. Sometimes it means adjusting our expectations, offering encouragement, or investing time today to build a stronger team for tomorrow.
The goal isn't to lower our standards. It's to recognize that sustainable success is about more than how fast we get there. It's about who grows along the way and what we're able to accomplish together.
As an African proverb reminds us: "If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together."
Thank you, Solomon, for reminding me of that lesson one step at a time.
And the best part? Our Team World Vision team raised $78,500 to help provide clean water for 1,570 people!
Now that's a good day! – Rusty