07/14/2026
Life is Messy!
So… Cleanliness is next to Godliness, they say, but let me be the Devil’s advocate for a moment. Please bear with me down the winding path.
One of the factors leading to my “cool grandma” status, is allowing the grandchildren to get dirty, do messy stuff, and use my tools. There are days you would be horrified to see the mess left in the wake of grandkid projects, but they are so happy when they’ve successfully created something. Small and large. My oldest grandson built an island for my kitchen when he was in school! He was pretty proud and rightfully so.
We have all been taught that cleanliness is next to Godliness; however, God is also a Master Creator, and I have never worked with a creative person whose work area was “clean.”
If you are a painter, there are always paint spatters, dirty paint brushes, messy clothes, messy floor, your hair, and whatever else you touch. Spots, dots, and more… If you do crafting, it’s always the glue, tiny scraps of whatever you are working with, stuff that fell to the floor and stuck to your shoe, leftover pieces that need to be cleaned up, and then dealing with everything the vacuum sweeper refuses to collect. If its woodworking it’s the sawdust, stain, splinters… Heck, I can’t even draw on the sidewalk without being covered in chalk dust. You absolutely cannot bring something new into this world without some mess. Just ask an OB nurse if you need confirmation of that!
So, what is my point?
If you hold on too tightly to the admonishment that cleanliness is next to Godliness, you may expect life to be simple and easy. Everything in its place, nothing to worry or complain about, living on “easy street.” However, as I said, creation is messy. That’s why our lives seem so complicated at times. Things change. Problems have to be dealt with. Things – good and bad – are put in our path that we never expected. “Stuff” changes all the time. We must learn how to be the engineers and architects of our own growth, the explorers that carve out the path when we can’t see what lies ahead, and most importantly, mentors to support those brave (or foolish) enough to follow us.
The point is – Get messy. Get dirty. Get involved! Life ain’t easy, so share what you know, support who you can, and work together to creatively follow the path to happiness.
~contributed by Melody Lowe