06/27/2023
My daughter is the wealthiest member of our household.
It isn’t because she has a small amount saved away for a future college education, or business venture, or first home, or whatever she might deem to be the best use of funds as a young adult.
It isn’t because she devours books two or three at a time, soaks up knowledge in school and out, and asks so many questions that I run out of brainpower when attempting to answer them all.
It isn’t because she has best friends galore, or two actively involved parents who love her, grandparents who are ever-present, and a community of wonderful people who come out to support her philanthropic fundraisers.
Actually, it’s all of these things, and she is very fortunate to have all of these benefits and this support in her life. But none of this is the primary source of her wealth.
My daughter is the wealthiest member of our household because she’s 9 years old and has decades upon decades of time at her disposal. And time is our greatest commodity.
I say this knowing that time is precious, and like money, it can disappear, at best, gradually, at worst, all at once. I say this knowing that my daughter will live a long, healthy life, as I refuse to accept the alternative.
Day by day that surplus of time will diminish. It will be spent on frivolous things, like watching TV or dwelling on events not worth an additional second of her time. It will also be invested in experiences, in growth, in the people around her. She’ll be rewarded by many of those investments, even if some of them don’t provide the returns or pay the dividends she’d hoped. Maybe a few of these investments will provide the return of a longer life. But the best days will always be limited. Time will always be finite.
How do you prioritize your time with that in mind?