09/15/2026
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I had a husband and wife as clients for many years. When the husband passed away, his wife called me shortly afterward.
She had found a piece of paper with my name on it related to their taxes.
She didn't know where to start.
She rarely drove. She hadn't done the grocery shopping in years. She didn't even know which bank they used or where the checkbook was.
And she had no family nearby.
I asked her to look through the cupboards and drawers until she found a checkbook. Once she found it, we scheduled an appointment.
She was nervous.
We started with the basics.
We called her bank and arranged for her to meet with a Customer Specialist. They helped her learn how to write a check, balance her checkbook, and understand which accounts needed to be closed or reopened. For quite some time, they even helped her with balancing the checkbook.
Then we turned our attention to her taxes.
We reviewed her prior-year return, and I gave her a list of the tax forms she could expect to receive in the mail. I told her, "If you're not sure what something is, don't throw it away. Keep it, and we'll figure it out together."
We even talked about groceriesโwhat she had at home and what she would need.
Tax season went well, but it was emotional.
Her husband's name was still on so many things. There were reminders of him everywhere.
We talked about him.
We talked about how much she missed him.
Sometimes we cried.
Sometimes we hugged.
Eventually, tax season was over.
Not long afterward, she sent me a very nice thank-you card. Then one day she stopped in with some cookies.
We sat and talked again.
But this time, something was different.
She was telling me stories about her husbandโand she was actually smiling.
I still remember that.
Over the years, I've learned that people don't always come to me because they need a tax return.
Sometimes they come because life has changed, and they don't know what to do next.
Sometimes they need someone to help them find the first step.
And sometimes, they just need someone to walk beside them for a little while.
๐๐๐ฑ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ญ ๐จ๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ ๐๐จ.
๐๐๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ซ๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ฒ ๐ ๐๐จ ๐ข๐ญ.
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