10/30/2026
A man owes a debt he can never repay. A friend steps in and says, “Charge it to me.”
It’s tucked into a one-chapter letter in the Bible most people skip.
I studied that letter, Philemon, this week with two friends. At first, we didn’t see the point. It’s a short, personal note from Paul about a runaway servant named Onesimus. No big doctrine, no famous verses.
Eventually, it clicked. Paul is writing to Philemon, the offended party, on behalf of Onesimus, the offender. Paul stands in the gap between them. The whole letter is a picture of what Jesus does for us: he stands between a holy God and sinful people and settles what we owe.
“Perhaps the reason he was separated from you for a little while was that you might have him back forever—no longer as a slave, but better than a slave, as a dear brother. He is very dear to me but even dearer to you, both as a fellow man and as a brother in the Lord. So if you consider me a partner, welcome him as you would welcome me. If he has done you any wrong or owes you anything, charge it to me.” (Philemon 1:15-18, NIV)
“Charge it to me.” That’s grace. Paul takes on the debt so the relationship can be restored.
Now I’ll put on my cringy financial advisor hat. To be clear, no advisor is Christ, and nobody can do what he did. But there’s a small, limited parallel worth thinking about.
A lot of people avoid planning because they feel behind, or guilty about past money decisions. They feel like they owe their future something they can’t repay, so they avoid the conversation entirely.
A good advisor doesn’t shame you for the past. They stand in the gap between where you are and where you want to be, help you face it honestly, and walk with you toward making it right.
You can’t go back and fix every mistake. But you don’t have to face the future alone either.
Cheers!
-Ryan