10/16/2026
📋 Most families will never owe federal estate tax. The tax they do owe shows up the first year an adult child has to take money out of a parent's traditional IRA.
Since 2020, most non-spouse heirs must empty an inherited traditional IRA within 10 years. If the parent was already past the required start date for distributions, the heir also owes one every year in between. Every dollar is ordinary income, stacked on the heir's own salary. A $1 million IRA left to a child in the 32% bracket can produce $320,000 or more in federal tax over the decade, before state tax.
The five moves on the card attack that bill from different directions.
A Roth conversion moves the tax from your heirs to you, at your rate, which works when your rate is lower than theirs will be. The conversion counts as income in the year you do it, so it can raise your Medicare premiums two years later through IRMAA and push more of your Social Security into the taxable column. An inherited Roth is fully tax-free only if the account has been open 5 years, so starting early matters.
Shrinking the traditional IRA is the same idea in smaller pieces: spending from it first in retirement, converting in low-income years, or, after 70 and a half, giving directly from it to charity through qualified charitable distributions, which never hit your return.
Appreciated assets are the opposite case. A house or a stock you still own at death gets a new cost basis, and the gain disappears. Give the same asset to a child while you are alive and the child inherits your original basis and the entire gain. The exception is charity: give appreciated stock to a charity and you deduct the full value while nobody pays the gain. And an asset sitting at a loss is the reverse; sell it before death, because the basis steps down too.
Leaving the IRA to charity and everything else to the kids is the one most people have not heard. A charity pays no income tax on an inherited IRA, so a $200,000 IRA to a charity and a $200,000 brokerage account to a child is worth more to the child than the reverse. One rule: put the charity on its own IRA rather than splitting one account between a charity and your kids. A charity sharing the form can cost your kids the 10-year window unless its share is paid out by September 30 of the year after you die.
The beneficiary form on each account overrides the will. That is where second marriages, divorces, and deceased beneficiaries go wrong.
Two things are not on the list. The $19,000 annual gift exclusion avoids a gift tax return, not a tax; larger gifts simply count against the $15 million lifetime exemption. It does reduce the bill in the 12 states with their own estate tax, where the line can be as low as $1 million. Life insurance proceeds are income-tax-free to heirs, so the issue is not tax; it is that term premiums rise steeply after 60, and the same dollars invested and held to death often leave more.
State taxes are a separate layer. Twelve states and D.C. have their own estate tax, and five states tax certain heirs on what they inherit. The state estate tax map on this page covers which ones.
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R.J. Weiss, CFP®
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