07/19/2026
I see this all the time. Someone making good money in a high-tax state moves to a no-tax state, takes a big pay cut, and calls it a win because "no state income tax."
Run the numbers. A $210K salary in a high-tax state takes home about $144,700. A $160K salary in a no-tax state takes home about $120,100. The tax savings do not cover the pay cut. You are down $24,635 a year, and that gap invested over 20 years is about a million dollars.
And cost of living is not just housing. Property taxes, insurance, childcare, and utilities in some low-tax states eat the savings anyway.
One more thing. If everyone around you is cheering the move without asking a single hard question, those are enablers, not friends. Real friends make you defend the decision out loud before you pack the truck.
Sometimes the move is right. But run the math first, then find someone honest enough to poke holes in it.